We didn't communicate. I'm in finance and yes, I've dealt with our finances. I have asked him many times to get involved. I would have issues because he likes to spend and I can't say no to him, so we never seem to pay the bills, although I have done so well getting others out of debt, things just snowballed with us and got entirely out of control. Many emergency costs we weren't prepared for and poor spending habits.
Yes, I'm suspicious that she's asking about it also. One more thing for "her" to have to worry about - when we file bankruptcy, it's five years of broke for us as we pay everyone back.
