Thank you both. The contact has been frequent and mostly in person, but mostly about the kids. However, in about 2 weeks when I move back into the house and he moves into his apt there will be very little contact at all and only a face to face one every other Sunday to exhange the kids. All other nights he has the kids he will either be picking them up from his moms or daycare and drop them off at the same places.
When I do see him, he just looks at me with so much hate in his eyes. And most of the time he can't seem to even stand to look at me. And when he talks to me, it's with a very cold/stone voice. This is another reason I think D is the best option right now. Plus he is willing to pay for it. I've read the D papers he had written up and he is pretty much giving me everything. So before he finds out about my raise, I think it's in my best interest to get out now.
I still have some hope that he'll change his mind before it's final, but I'm ok if that doesn't happen. I know right now he doesn't miss me, 1 because he is with OW and 2 he sees me very often.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
