only you know when you want to move forward. Also, I think you did all of what you had to do in the first few months. You exposed, you stood for your marriage, and you acted with dignity. I don't know what more there is to do. Hugs all around. I am NC at the moment. Haven't spoken to my husband in 4 days except for one email which i sent that said "I am working."
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo