Got back from trail running with DSD and I spoke to him. Shouldn't have, I know that, but told him that I never wanted control, he gave it to me, maybe he should look at the common denominator in his relationships with women. Mother, XGF, 1XW, 2W
He expressed that he didn't think I heard him yesterday. Apparently he doesn't like the validation thing. Thought it sounded like it came from a book, he didn't think I had heard him. I asked him what sort of response he had expected. Did he want me to beg, plead, cry? Because right now, he's not a man I respect. He's a liar, cheater, he's stolen my past and future, and he has not treated me even as a friend. He protested that. I told him that when he went outside the M to OW and friends and told them things about me being crazy (essentially) he violated my trust and privacy and I did not respect him and I did not ever see myself wanting to be "friends" with someone who did that.
