Grubere, it sounds like my sitch exactly. I see it was buried a while back and I guess no one was around to give me an answer.
H is in an A, deep in, refuses to break it off. I've exposed it, to him, family, friends and OWH. He just told me yesterday that he won't be going on the 16th, but up until yesterday he was saying he would go. Just to "make me happy" I guess. It was my birthday present that he said yes.
I'm thinking of saying to him that even if he doesn't want to stay married to me, at least it will help us get back our friendship. What does everyone think about that?
I'm desperate now. I have put too much hope into this, I really want/need him to go.
