ok... went home on lunch, and he still seems the same... said i have nothing to worry about, etc... it still seems very weird... im sure its hard for anybody to accept this when their spouse actually does turn around, but it feels really weird. I would like to believe that he doesnt have some evil alterior motive... hmmm.... I asked him about C and he said he would like to do religious based C. So thats a plus. I mentioned to him that if he is serious about this then maybe he should reconsider getting out of the military early and take a little more time for us to figure this out before he heads off overseas again (H has little over 1 year left in the service, but recently found out that he qualifies for early separation which could have him out of the service in 6 months) he said he understands that and its something he would have to think about. Man...this is weird, am i dreaming??

How do I proceed from here??


Me: 25
H:25
M: 2yrs
T: 4yrs
No Kids
Bomb: 11 Feb 10
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