Passenger, I just saw that you asked me for advice a few days ago. I'm sorry that I was out of town and missed seeing that post. I'm happy to see that you have been getting good advice from Saffie. I echo what she says. It's important to keep in mind that part of getting along with another person is respecting their point of view, even if you don't agree with it. To refuse to speak to your husband when he asks to speak to you is not respecting another person. Yes, I've heard all the arguments about who is disrespecting whom. And two wrongs still don't make a right. To get along, you must be willing to try to get along. Walking out on someone who asks to speak to you is just plain rude.
