I am in such turmoil at present. I have followed the 180 path and I am pretty sure my wife again sees a change in me. I was working at my computer station and she wanted to know if I was getting things ready for a divorce. I did not respond. I am speaking with my lawyer again today. She never in a million years would think I would file for divorce, but she has not tried to reconcile the differences. She has told me she no longer loves me and does not enjoy my company. I personally think she is unhappy with herself and where she is in life. I believe she blames me for this in a way. I told her she had the most important job of doing a great job raising our children while I worked. There are many things that I would do differently but she has no desire to work with me which is very frustrating to me. This situation has been going on for 7 long months and you would think after almost 26 years of marriage that she would have agreed to get marrital help. I am afraid if I do file that this will drive a further wedge between us but then again it may make her realize with a separation what she really had. I do not believe there is a third party involved at this point. I do enjoy this forum and continue to pray that we can be reunited again. Bobby O
