Thanks guys for your posts.

Steve, You're right. Why would I want to be with somebody that has done that to me.

Since reading your post a couple of times I now realise my materialistic tendencies have been clouding my judgement of my W.

A part of the attraction towards my W was the fact she comes from a wealthy family who have a villa in one of the Greek Islands, they have a pool, speedboat, jeep out there, and here they have a very large property, stocks and shares which my W will inherit.

My sadness seems to flit between losing my W but also the fact she was my pension, as I have very little money myself.

I know that sounds awful but I am just being honest. Can someone try and put my thoughts into some kind of perspective.


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years