Steve, You're right. Why would I want to be with somebody that has done that to me.
Since reading your post a couple of times I now realise my materialistic tendencies have been clouding my judgement of my W.
A part of the attraction towards my W was the fact she comes from a wealthy family who have a villa in one of the Greek Islands, they have a pool, speedboat, jeep out there, and here they have a very large property, stocks and shares which my W will inherit.
My sadness seems to flit between losing my W but also the fact she was my pension, as I have very little money myself.
I know that sounds awful but I am just being honest. Can someone try and put my thoughts into some kind of perspective.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years