Make a list of all the things you want blocked and present it all at once. Include a No Contact letter in that deal. Otherwise, she will just appease you to deceive you. I have been there. Ask for complete transparency, so you can learn to trust, not control.
It doesn't seem she is ready for this. Be strong. Nothing less will work.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread