Yes, the sh!t will hit the fan, but this is very normal.
Don't sweat him. You are one cool chick and it is frustrating him that you won't cooperate or be manipulated by his ridiculous demands anymore.
I remember how he told you that you wouldn't get a dime, could just get your @ss out with nothing but the clothes on your back, yadda....yadda....LOL!! As if!!
But it scared me at the time that you believed him. I'm so glad you got an atty of your own. Don't discuss $$$ or any other settlement with h anymore. Let your atty handle it.