Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

[TrentC]

so which is it? is it scared to admit he wants us to get help? or is he really doing this bc he thinks i need to go to therapy to have someone evaluate us and say we are better off apart bc he truly has no feelings for me? or is he just trying to be nice because in 3 months the baby will be here?

Here's a thought... why not ask a marriage counselor? He may go in with an agenda, but a good counselor will figure that out.

Waiting until he's fully committed to working things out is like waiting until you have stopped drinking before you go to an AA meeting.

If you are really done with him and he says he is done with you, then it won't be worth the effort. But if you both have at least some desire to try to figure it out, why not go?