I undertsand Glimmer and I hope that there is something for you to learn from my experiences here.
I was adversarial then because it was pre-bomb and I had not yet learned the tools I needed. I have them now but she is unwilling to talk, dream, or listen. I suspect that she still is talking to OM.
Oh, and my wife makes 3, almost 4 times more than I do. For now anyways!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final