I undertsand Glimmer and I hope that there is something for you to learn from my experiences here.

I was adversarial then because it was pre-bomb and I had not yet learned the tools I needed. I have them now but she is unwilling to talk, dream, or listen. I suspect that she still is talking to OM.


Oh, and my wife makes 3, almost 4 times more than I do. For now anyways!


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final