"My XW had an affair, we got back together, and things were great for 8 years. Then she did it again. But this time she knew what drew her back to me the last time, and she avoided those situations at all costs. Why am I telling you this? Because ultimately, that's the danger. You have every right to be paranoid."
Crazy I tell you, avoiding positions where they would NATURALLY become reattached to their own spouse. Just so they can live in the moment. It usually comes crashing down.
