He has mentioned several times over the past two weeks that he wants to go to marriage counseling with me. First of all, let me say that he didnt come up with the idea on his own... i asked him to go for months now.

Why the sudden change of heart? he is starting to be more normal than not lately and I am not sure how to take it. he said he wants to do something nice for me and after having been selfish for so many years, he wants to do something for me? and he thinks therapy is the answer?

is he just scared to admit that we may be able to benefit from help? or is he trying to get me to counseling to prove we are not meant to be?????