Another session with the MC. I felt this one went a bit better than last time. I said I felt the focus of the last session seemed to be about all of the things I did (or didn't) do in the R.

W started out being confused about what she wants. By the middle of the session she says she just decided that she wants a D. She said yesterday she didn't but today she does. If I weren't prepared for the confusion I wouldn't know how to take it.

She also did a bunch of projection and rewriting history. I did a great job validating but not agreeing with what she was saying. Believe none of what she says.

Someone mentioned the eyes a while ago. Stay clear of the small pupils. They were pinholes during the session.

MC isn't sure that W has made up her mind and wants to see us again in a couple of days. Well see ifthe confusion is still present or if her mind is still as clear as W seems to think it is.

I took a lot of siht from W. She is really trying hard to paint our M and by extension me in a bad light to justify what she is doing. I can feel the pain she is feeling and has felt the past several years of her depression. MC won't help with her depression.


Me: 43
W: 40
S10,S7
M12, T13+

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1952314&page=1