I am thinking of moving over to Newcomers and starting a new post. It's a bit lonely over here and I feel I have 6 weeks left of DBing to go before I am taken up with new baby.
G and P!!! i need help!!! I know I said I was taking a sabatical... but then...
he said he wants to try marriage counseling?!?!?!? He did mention it last week, and yesterday brought it up several times! not sure why or what his intentions of going are... sorry to take over your thread! Now what?! he was so back to himself and normal, it was kind of scarry... i feel like i am being very cautious... but how could I not be? what is the worse case scenario? right back to where i have been?
DB, How did he tell you? Was it a phone coversation or email? You haven't replied have you?
You are right to be cautious. But I think this is an important opportunity. My feeling is you can't go running back into his arms.. not straight away. You need to keep your composure.
I feel out of my depth...
My suggesting is to post a new thread in Newcomers to get some attention (I know it didn't work last time!!!).
make sure you put a link to your old thread in it.
New thread sounds like my good idea. I think, though, that marriage counseling sounds like a really good step. Go slow and have lowwww expectations. Keep us posted, yay!
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
Please visit me.. I need some help. Feeling very vulnerable and also very angry at my WAH. Afraid of what I may say to him.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
Keep us posted, yay!