When she drew the "who am I" drawing I did not know what most of it was. Then I read her journal in August and found out most of what she drew had to do with OM!
Now that I have that out of the way...I will say you are 100% correct about dream sharing. Matter of fact that is EXACTLY what she told me a week before the bomb. She was mad about me procrastinating on getting the taxes done and she said, "what motivates you? You arent motivated by money, dont you have any dreams?" Of corse her attitude did not make me want to talk to her at all! She treated me like a child when all I needed was someone to be interested in what I do. She had this attitude that she and the people she works with were better than me.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final