Your last post brought about another question in my mind. You have a plan for makeing over $100K and you have never told her about it. I don't care about the dollar figure....what this tells me (or indicates to me) is that you may be guilty of something my wife told ME I was guilty of, and that is not sharing dreams with her.
Maybe your wife is money motivated, maybe not, I don't know. I think you need to close the gap between what you make and what she makes, I won't deny you that. But to many women, money is not just about the money, they see it as both security and a way to make their dreams come true.
Remember when your wife drew that circle or whatever with the "who am I" in it. She was dreaming. She was pondering. Think about what she may be dreaming about. Do you know? Has she shared anything with you along those lines?
Most likely, she wants someone she can feel secure with and that she can dream with. Wow, sounds like what I've found out the past few months.
