I have no idea what she would think about me putting my ring back on. I almost threw it into a lake a few weeks ago.lol

The dating is not an issue with me really but I have not met anyone yet. The last person I went out with only made me miss my wife more.


The financial security is a huge deal for her now that I have been enlightened by all this I can see that. I have a plan for making over 100k a year within a year or two but I have not told her about it. My career is an arts career and hers is a corporate one, very different and I may NEVER make enough money.

At this point I need the divorce settlement to pay off my debts!

Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final