CW & Forever - I will keep writing. I need you guys/girls with me through this. Your advice, opinions and support will be really appreciated. I know that this is not going to be easy.

SA - I'm trying to figure out how this is going to play out for him. End of the affair and his MLC. Next step should be this:

1) Depression due to withdrawal from the affair (I already see the signs)
2) End of the affair may trigger him moving into the next stage of MLC, which is more depression.

Hopefuly he will combine the two to save time LOL

When he comes out of that I guess I have to look forward more withdrawal? Wasn't I there with him once already, before replay?

Well I'm not going to speculate, one day at the time. He still doesn't believe that he is in MLC. He doesn't believe that such a thing exists. He is more inclined to acknowledge that he is going through andropause.

I sure hope that we can go through the rest of his MLC together, as long as he talks to me about his feelings and if we reestablish emotional intimacy, I can help him and offer stability and support throughout the rest of his journey. That is, if he lets me.

I don't think that he will seek a new woman, this was just to painful for him to repeat. I do worry about the present OW or I should say past OW (positive thinking) I sure hope that that is over for good.

As to your question SA "When does piecing start?" I think that it starts now.

Last edited by Mila; 04/07/10 03:00 AM.
M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO