Keep goin Mind. I love your spirit. Wish you were closer to me as you could rub off some of the positive attitude!! Keep it up.
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)
So this is where you're hiding now, I knew your thread couldn't possibly stop updating.
Just wanted to pop in and say hi.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
My H used to say (and said just a few months before the bomb) that "together we can do anything........" Which I guess is true....because I can't fix "us" by myself......Sorry----just thinking.................
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
You just caused me to snort! LOL Are you talkin' about our IM convo from a few months back? Well, if you're talkin' about that, then, what Fergie's talkin' about (and my confidence build by "G") may just work together! Question... angle?
ST, you portray an angelic wife and mom. NOT! LoL
HUGS, my mentor friend!
Last edited by mindfull; 04/08/1011:33 AM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
PI in place for Monday am meeting. Cash reserved to pay them.
IF there's something there:
Attorney info secured. Legal SA to be drafted. (I'll need access to cash immediately, and he'll see that I mean business.)
Local (and somewhat local!) support available, and on back-up, if needed. (This will be the most important.)
IF there's not something there:
Full court press w/out major pressure. Time-frame for allowable response - End-of-month - After that, don't let the door hit you in the as$ on the way out.
This won't work as is, as the resentment wall is building, and I don't go "back" well, nor do I forgive well. This will get interesting because he will NOT leave his boys.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
