Sorry for the rambling but I will definitely give ALJ some advice so that I can keep my mind focused on how I need to be with my own husband.
Yes, this was my thinking.. you two can advise each OTHER and make a commitment to each OTHER to follow each other's advice... you both have enough similarities here that you can help each other and help bring yourselves to be more objective about your own relationships.
When you see your H do something now you can see ALJ's husband and it will dawn on you much more easily.. objectivity is what should come from this experiment... if you are up for it
