I'm so glad the guys jumped all over this. Pass, this is bullying behaviour. If you don't call him on it and demand that it stop, it will escalate. He's running scared right now and that's when people are most unpredictable. Just because you may think he won't be abusive, doesn't mean he could't be. You need to document what happened today in a safe place. If anything else happens, consult an attorney right away.
I wouldn't have another "talk" tonight. Be unavailable. If he tries, walk away.
