Just reading Officer in Needs sitch and the thought came to me... DH today in an email said (when I wasn't responding to his emails) -well, it looks like you made your mind up about where we're heading so you may as well try to get a refund on the Retro price - the money will come in handy for lawyers and such.
Why would he say that if he had made up HIS mind to D?
I know he's confused, and nothing means anything, but it just suddenly struck me as an odd thing to say. I realize he was trying to control me... still, it's odd.
