Fantastic insight. I cheated with my triathlon bike after giving up on my W doing anything other than shopping. She found it relaxing, I found it a waste. I enjoyed the reward of fitness while she withdrew.
You found your triathlon bike relaxing and she found it a bore. It's a two way street. Fitness forced on a person that "knows" they are a fatty just makes the problem worse unfortunately. I really hope you both find your ways back to one another. What I am feeling and going through is utter pain that I know I need to feel it.
Me: WAW/MLC 41 H: 42 M: 16 yr T: 20 Me: EA/PA started Sept 2008 D: Anytime, just need to sign papers http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1968939&page=1