Excellent, Ellie--thanks! Bummer about the geographically undesirable part, though.
FYI, I talked with DB coach Chuck this morning last minute. I called to make an appointment, and he was open in 5 minutes--must have been meant to be. We talked about my letter of release and how to give it to H--I will mail it to his home (with ow, which shows him that I know the truth and that we can deal with it openly. We also talked about how to say thank you and farewell to his family and about confronting ow witht he truth, which I am not comfortable with and consequently will not do. I absolutely believe that karma comes around and trust that the universe will settle their hash in the perfect way at the perfect time. Chuck's advice about meeting new people was to GAL and do th w things that bring me joy and make friendships that way--this helps avoid rebound Rs. Great convo, but very emotional.
I was also able to schedule an appointment wtih a L tomorrow afternoon--his last available this week, so again, meant to be. this is soemone a colleague used last year for her D, and I liked the way he treated her. We'll see what he has to say about the whole enchilada.
I'm on spring break right now and happy to call my time my own. I may go out of town this week for a day or two, but I'm not sure yet.
BTW, I've been asking H for 2 weeks to bring my sleeping bag and mat by in case I go on a trip this week. No reply. I texted last night: "Please don't let me down on this." He showed up in the early afternoon--hung out and talked about work, etc. Says he might be by later tonight. Kissed me many times. First time we've seen each other in 7 weeks. It would be so easy to just keep going this way, but I'm ready to be done--I know the truth. Boy is he going to be surprised!
