WAS seeing reality?

[v1olin]

Thanks for being honest Glimmerman. I am coming to a place where I can really ask my wife how she feels and why. I did do that in october and she said she had so many "other" emotions involved in making her decision. I asked her what those emotions were and she said that she did not think that her telling me would help me. I told her that she was still afraid of hurting my feelings after all this and she did not say no. That was the last time I made an attempt at talking and that is when I decided I was done talking. Maybe after divorce we can have some talks about things. who knows?