Thanks Allen for responding.

I am listening to what you have to say. I will admit it is hard and that the truth hurts. I don't know what you mean when you say MIL is deluded when she suggested that I not let my H stay at my house because she feels that he is having his cake and eating it too? I think she was just looking out for me by saying that if I didn't want H staying at my house, he could stay at her house and the kids could visit him there. I would not be involved when he sees the kids. She thinks it would be better for me if I don't talk to him at all. I even told her about the protection phase letter and she said it sounded like a good idea and she supported me if I send it to him because he deserves everything coming to him for walking away from us. How is she shutting me out? Maybe you misunderstood the way that I wrote that part.


Me:34
H:34
D:7
D:6
D:3
T:20years
M:10years
Bomb: Feburary 2009
Separated: May 2009
EA confirmed March 2010