You weren't disrespectful. He was for holding you against your will. You could actually had called the cops on him. He and the OW are birds of a feather. Both of them put alot of the blame on you and each other. They didn't take any personal responsibility.
Personal responsibility. That's what's missing.
He didn't find it disrespectful to cheat on you and with another guy's W, but thought you were being so just because you didn't want to talk to him? Whatever.
Right now he's planning his strategy on how he's going to see the OW. And she's doing the same. AA's right about it all being about control. He feels it spiraling out of his grasp, so he's trying to grab it back.
You've had the talk, so now maybe you should ignore him.
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