yes both MILs (mine and ALJ's) are enabling. I wanted to scream at my MIL yesterday when we were talking. She was also talking about her other sons and there marriages. Basically how as a mother she will always love her sons even though she doesn't agree with how one son is "whoring around" on his wife. She doesn't get in the middle of it because she doesn't want it to affect her relationship with her daughter-in-laws and being able to see her grandchildren. I don't think my MIL even really believes the severity of my husband's cheating. She was saying last night how basically everyone in their family sees my husband as the one who can do no wrong because he is the most successful one.
Sorry for the rambling but I will definitely give ALJ some advice so that I can keep my mind focused on how I need to be with my own husband.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
