Sorry to say it, but good riddance! it would be extremely difficult to rebuild trust with someone who had been secretly plotting and setting up their new life for a year under your nose and had even gone and ingratiated herself in with the new "family." Yuck. The OMW is a piece of work too. Sounds good you got this off your chest already. I agree don't involve the parents. What's the point? It was fine that you called OMW. SHe had the right to know if she didn't as it could very well have impacted her custody issues. Who knew she was happy to dump the H? Sounds like a real winning guy....