I'm sorry. That does suck. Well, since you've made up your mind, I wouldn't view it so much as limboland. Yes, you're not officially D, but in all other aspects you are D. Just treat H like any other person in a businness relationship - immpersonal and to the point. Update regarding S as needed and request your monthly child support checks. It's completely up to you if you want to inform him of your D plans or not, but it might still be a good idea. Also, you may want to check around with various L's b/c it may not be as expensive as you think. Since H is not going to come after custody of S, there shouldn't be a court battle. When I had talked to an L last year, she was going to cut my retainer in half b/c I thought I could work it out with H all outside of court. Just something to keep in mind.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
