That is the biggest barrier I think I face ultimately. She is incredibly stubborn and one to never admit fault (probably a flaw that I will notice a lot more in her if I get with someone else who doesn't have this trait).
It has made me feel like my situation is near impossible because even if she has doubts that she is doing the right thing, her pride will never let her outwardly admit this. It would take a major crow-eating exercise for her to admit that the M actually could have a possibility of surviving and that by working on it there was a possibility for her to be happy. I certainly wouldn't make her eat crow but she would have her own fierce internal battle with this.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline