If your H presses you to talk, you can print that sucker up and staple it to his forehead and send him on his way.. especially the last line about you having to clean up his mess... KEEP that paragraph.
Don't send it... wait til he shows up at your door trying to charm you again. shove that in his mouth and walk away.
Go read ALJ's post. I want to see what kind of advice you want to give her when you read what her husband's behaviour is like...
