He's taking the position that (I know, script, just explaining)... that he is going to leave me anyway. He's just biding his time. He said he only wants me to find someone (with tears in his eyes) that will love me the way I love him. He also wants to finish the conversation tonight.
Few things I have going for me. 1. he procrastinates-I don't see him filing for D unless she really pushes him. 2. I don't think OW is ready to move out on her H just yet 3. I am NOT leaving my house 4. He'd have no where to go and no money to go with 5. The kids are in a school in a town that we promised them we would not move until they graduate (2 more years) 6. I am not going to give up my dogs
He hasn't thought through anything past today and getting me upset and walking away, from what I've seen. Not that he won't - but hasn't yet.
Also, he just took a walk around the yard with me to show me the buds on all the bushes and fruit trees we planted. One of our favorite times of the year.
Some common interests I've always wanted to pursue are beer brewing, getting my motorcycle license and doing karate. He knows I've always wanted to do those things... is it too much if I start now?
