I honestly think most of the LD stuff is pursuit... THINK through the LD and ask yourself how YOUR wife woudl respond... never mind how HIS wife responded... that's a MOVIE... its good for reference and allows you to see the importance of patience and love for love's sake, not because you are getting something out of it... but the actual TIMING and CHOICES of the acts he performs for her aren't necessarily constructive.
And his WIFE has much more constructive people around her than your wife does right now. I know she was having an EA, but her parents weren't telling her to LEAVE you and bulding her an apartment...
You gotta be careful with your choices... cleaning the house and doing laundry is one thing, even making a dinner, but buying flowers and gifts may be too much
