How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Just watched "Fireproof" and what a great movie. So much in there relates to my situation...

I wanted to start doing the "love dare" even though I have done most dares already.

As for today my W came home from work early she walked in the bedroom as I was sleeping and said "just wanted to let you know I am home" she then grabbed her pillow and went and laid down in a separate room. I said nothing and did not bother her.

I eventual got up and started to clean the house. My W woke up and at one point I said to her I was thinking about going somewhere and if she would like to join, she actually nodded yes rather than shoulder shrug.

We went out and for the most part she was cold and quite.... And that is pretty much how today is going her being distant.

I thought maybe I would give the "love dare" a shot.