How long have you been at this Glimmer? Have you read Coach's old posts yet? His sitch seems similar to yours and his "leading" DB style seems to match yours. What I am doing seems to go along with the DB technique "acting as if."
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final