Michelle is so wise beyond her years isn't she? I agree. Keep working on being you and not you with Gabe living in your house! It was good that he was there to help but you need to let him know that there are deadlines to the free ride. Stay firm on your boundaries.

hugs, kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory