I honeslty don't think he should be around his children at ALL until he ENDS his AFFAIR.. he is NOT a good example for his children.. he just teaches them to treat women like dirt.. is that the thing you want them learning?
I am so upset I don't even have the emotional stability to go through this post and point out all the manipulative hurtful things he did.
ALJ you really need to LOOK at what he's DOING. And TALKING to this man is NOT going to HELP YOU. He manipulates conversations :
1. You went out shopping and left him to watch his OWN CHILDREN for FOUR MEASLY HOURS and how many HOURS do YOU watch them each WEEK? And he has the NERVE to COMPLAIN that YOU were LATE? He is MOUNTING another WOMAN and HE attacks YOU for being NEGLIGENT and unavailable?
2. THEN you go to a bbq and HE pulls an even WORSE stunt than you by leaving with NO NOTICE at ALL... and you speak up and he just excuses himself AGAIN?
3. Your MIL is deluded if she thinks YOU should be the one SHUT OUT when HE comes up there. HE is the one that should be ostracized NOT YOU. Man, I have a lot more I want to say, but I fear it won't be heard anyhow...
