Invinceable

[MichelleLT]

Of course it affects you. And of course this is bringing up buried issues. You're only human my dear.

The practical part of me says use this as an opportunity to try and deal with those issues (easier said than done of course, and we all know this).

Talk to him about when he is moving out.

Good job with setting the boundary of the gardening being your thing and your relaxation time (I too find it very relaxing).

And hang in there my girl.

You are not doing an easy thing, but I admire you for your compassion and willingness to help him out temporarily.