She wants a free pass Ken, but from the look of your thread here, you are gonna give it to her...
Ken. You get what you pay for and a marriage is no different... she has to EARN her way back in and you are holding the door open pleading with her to dance through...
If she gets IN the marriage again for free she will LEAVE it just as quickly... you have shown her she can COME and GO as she pleases... IF there's no price for leaving, she WILL DO it again.
This guy needs to learn how to play poker - bigtime.
