my wife seems to be saying that she wants to finally give me a second chance,
Why do you need a second chance, Ken? You are not the one having an affair. What about her? Is she at all concerned if she gets a second chance or not? No, she isn't b/c she has you eating out of her hand.
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she said she want to wait on that.
Well, there you go......I think that answered that.
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I'm hoping that we can get that done this evening.
Don't hold your breath.
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If she agrees to that, I think that is great progress.
I think if she agreed, it would simply be to throw you off guard b/c she is not through with OM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!