The anniversary issue is a tough one. Ours is in Aug. and it will be 20 years! I am hoping we will be in a good place, maybe even renewing vows? But, there needs to be significant progress for that to happen. If our anniversary was a month away we (or I should say i) would not be ready for that. I think acknowledging the day would be good, but in a more low key way for now. Kind of like what you did with Valentine's day. Maybe (hopefully) next year your wedding anniversary can be something with lots of celebration! What do you think?
