SoCo,

I would like him to get over it,,, or at least stop talking to me about it, Just cut it off when the "blame game " goes on sounds like a great idea.

Its difficult not to call... I seem to go back and forth not being able to concentrate unless I am somehow envolved with them or him.

Guess this is one of my hump to get over.

Your right... at this moment all of him is anger and madness..and no matter what I say...it wont have any effect to smooth any of that.
It is his and He has to do it..

I feel like I need to find a path and stay on it , get some kind of goals going maybe some rules or something to keep me where I need to be going.


M 36/ H 40
4 children
HMLC= 5/2009
sign d 3/2010 (to be final 6/10)
m16yrs/17yrs in Sept

resource for me:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1964990&page=1