Ohh...so let's talk about passive contact. As in googling the ex...I did this and found OW pics. Yes, I know I am not supposed to look but I did.

Have to say that based on the pics, things are not looking like paradise in la la land, but at this point I keep trying to tell myself that it doesn't much matter; this is ex's life and what he wanted and he has shown me that I am not welcome.

OK. Momentary break in my routine here; I am under stress at the moment and hence the need to look. I'll be back to my regular self as time goes by....


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D