One more thing after reading your last post. Living together is not the goal right now. Opening communication is the goal.
Even mentioning living together right now is pursuing. And when you do talk, listen to what SHE brings up, then you can ask her questions something like this.
"How does it make you feel when I do stuff like that"
Always, always ask about her. Do not tell her how you feel. Quite frankly how you feel doesn't matter for squat right now to her. Use this board to take out frustrations, but if you show frustration or anger toward her, she will most likely shut right back down. Same old, same old in her eyes.