Thanks again rr22. I will take your advice and run with it for now. I don't know about seeing IC again since I really didn't like her much not to mention my time is so limited these days. One thing (and this is totally off topic...sorta) I have been considering is quitting my day job and going full-time with my photography. I sincerely believe that my time away from my kids and wife has contributed to at least SOME strain on us all. Maybe that way I can give the kids the time they deserve.
SO, I will try my best to avoid the arguments/fights when she's been drinking a lot. I'm sure I will have more to post later in the evening.