Well, 12 out of 20 is progress, right!?

What would happen if you just signed her up for Y care without waiting for an answer from your wife?

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17